Believe in Yourself

There may the days when you wake up in the morning and the things aren't the way you hoped  they would be. That's when you have to tell things yourself that things will get  better. There are times when people disappoint you and let you down. But those are the times when you must remind yourself to trust your judgments and opinions,to keep your life focused on believing yourself. There will be challenges and changes in life its all up to you to accept them. Constantly keep yourself headed in right direction for you. It may not be easy at times but in those times of struggle you will  find  stronger sense of who you are you. So when the days come that are filled with frustration and unexpected responsibilities  remember to believe in yourself and all you want in your life to be. Because challenges and changes will only help you to find the goals that you know will come true to u in life.

dreams

                                                                   DREAMS

Dreams are just thoughts you had during the day.. That would explain why I dream about you so much. Reality and dreams have two different meaning of life; Reality shows the facts about life, and your dreams are just an imagination moment.If there is something in this world that has no limits, imagination tops the list. But the irony is that man has the power to turn his imagination into reality only if he believes that he can do it. Imagination coupled with effort and hard work can bring in wonders. The dreams of great people have come true through their unstinted hard work. 

Necessity is the mother of invention they say but any invention comes into shape only after the imagination is given due recognition. If knowledge is essential for an end product, imagination forms the fuel. You can never fly without imagination and therefore, dont cut its wings. 

Morality

 Morality

The greatest gift of human rationality is morality. The establishment of “morality” is based on the recognition that every human has a general set of basic needs to lead a life free of physical and psychological suffering.Before I take any position on the issues raised by the differences between these various approaches, I need to offer a definition of morality. Morality, in the context of these different kinds of theories, can be defined only descriptively in relation to its purpose and to its function.People can only try to provide different answers based on their own assumptions, faiths, experiences and intuitions. Thus, morality, in the most practical sense, is a tool or way of life used to promote the common good of human beings and eliminate harmful actions that bring negative consequences in life, goals based on the principle of reciprocity and empathy, and a set of universally recognized human needs and capabilities.

Friendship

Friendship is a feeling of love and affection of one person for another. This feeling of love must be reciprocated. Otherwise friendship cannot be possible. Friendship does not exist where tastes, feelings and sentiments are not similar.

The famous essayist Bacon has warned against the friendship between a very rich person and a very poor person. Economic disparity damages friendship. Thus friendship is a feeling of affection between two like minded persons of uniform status.

It is said that a friend in need is a friend in deed. There may be many friends at the time of prosperity. But most of them desert at the time of adversity. We can examine the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble. All others leave us. It is very painful when our friends turn traitors.

Money is an enemy of friendship. Everybody has an attraction for money. When lending or borrowing of money is done between two friends, there is great risk. Friendship may be affected. So it is wise for true friends to avoid monetary transaction. Vanity is another element which breaks friendship. Everybody has self-respect. When a person tries to criticise his friend, their friendship is affected. So friendship must be treated very delicately.

Very often some hypocrites pretend to be friends. They are more dangerous than avowed enemies. By telling soft words they bring enormous ruin to us. A true friend never exploits. He rather surrenders. But at present, the meaning of friendship has changed.

Good friends exercise good influence. They always help their friends, in distress and inspire them to walk on the right path. But evil friends ruin us completely.

Gift of Love

The beauty within your soul glow colors of a rainbow, the truth of your heart is your precious gift of love.   You have many gifts that are embedded deep within you; see the beauty of life with your heart and you will find your gifts.  the true gift is beauty of love that we can give to each other.Give your gifts to life and live by the truth of your heart.   Do not ever give up on finding true love, do not ever give in to a fake heart and settle for less than your own self love.    Open up your heart and feel the beauty of true love, you have nothing to lose because you own your heart.    Give your heart to life and love will gift  you .

Family

When we Close our eyes and picture Family comes, Family's love is life's greatest blessing.

You know the old saying, "you can't choose your family".   Even when we migrate from one place to another, we carry our family values with us.   In fact, our family is responsible for our identity. Remember, the world knows you by your actions and not by your intentions.   Whatever   we  have  learned  from our family  over the years  serves as a   basic premise for our actions in life. As such, individuals with extended family enjoy more benefits over a person who decides to lead a solo life.   A person  with a  family receives an  emotional edge, which often results into his success in life.I have really captured the many hues of life .

The family unit is an important part of our growth and development. Sometimes the definition of family is not always cut and dry. For many of us, our friends serve as our closet relations, becoming every bit as important to us as any bond formed by blood ties.

Whether you're estranged from your loved ones, or you just can't get enough of them, here you will find an assemblage of thoughts that will really hit home.

They may be exasperating at times, but you are lucky to have them. Let them know just how you feel with these poignant words of love. During hard times, everyone in the family including you benefit due to the extended relationship, especially during events such as death, accident and so on. Also, the joy associated with success or any other happy moment magnifies when our family is around. Everyone out there is able to reap the benefits of one person’s success, whether it’s your birthday, a new business venture or any other milestone in life.

While technology has certainly helped families stay in close contact with each other, can it replace the feeling that one receives after hugging his/her child or can it serve as an ideal  Whatever the case may be, the significance of family is incalculable!

Thank you and Sorry

hey all I feel Thank you and Sorry can make a relationship bond stronger and Its a sign of kindness and mannerism. do u all agree?????

Thanks means Appreciating somebody work or someone. then true smile comes on the faces its like hundred million smile.   Sorry is like forgiving some one Forgiveness is to release from hard feelings, yes, but it is also to release from revenge and to help them overcome their sins! 

The weak can never forgive.   Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong  .Apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right.   It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.   Thanking Someone is a gesture of gratitude, With a simple hand gesture in sign language, you can easily convey your "thanks" to those who are serving without stumbling around for words, feeling awkward or getting tearful.  Gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind.

kindness

kindness is the act or the state of being kind, being marked by good and charitable behavior, pleasant disposition, and concern for others. It is known as a virtue, and recognized as a value in many cultures and religions . Knowing the meaning of kindness is good. Better still is experiencing how to be happy by sowing seeds of kindness through doing small acts of kindness daily. Kindness then soon blossoms into love.

• Look your partner in the eye and smile at him or her in a kindly way.



• At a checkout till smile at the cashier, and thank them for the job they're doing.



• In a public washroom, smile at the cleaner and thank him or her for keeping the place so clean and fresh for everyone. Perhaps even give a tip if that would be appropriate in your society.



• Offer to help a family member carry their shopping bags into the house.



• In the home, offer to do something that another member of the family usually does - just to give them a break from it. It could be washing the dishes, taking out the refuse, making the bed, locking the garage door or any of the typical household activities that are part of life.



• When you next make a phonecall to a stranger, deliberately and consciously be friendly to the person at the other end, without being gushy or syrupy. Just be nice, recognising them as another human being who also wants to be happy.



• Extend the practice beyond human beings too: to pets and plants. See if you feel good inside.

Hope

Hope keeps something alive in us even when the evidence to a particular circumstance says otherwise.

It is a spiritual grace and is distinct from positive thinking, which refers to a psychological process for reversing pessimism.

Your Creator knows your struggles, your pain, and your needs.
You will never be forgotten or abandoned.

Forget those things that are behind you and pursue the things that are ahead of you.
You have a purpose and calling on your life, you are one of a kind and loved 

Try to be patient; it is never over until your Creator says it is over.
You have a divine destiny and no forces on Earth or in Hell can take that from you.

the creature of universe

Even after hearing "no" time after time, or not hearing anything at all, do not give up. The right people are in your path and you will meet them when it is time, timing is everything.

One day you will look back and see how all the pieces fit together, the dots will connect, the good choices and the bad choices that we made, and then you will understand that everything happened for a reason.

When I feel that pang of regret, I have to remember and know that there was a reason it did not work out the way I wanted, what do they say about not getting what we want?
"Experience is what you get, when you don't get what you want." 

hope can do what the natural cannot, people and circumstances change, and miracles still happen. You can follow the Light of the world and not live in darkness, but you have to believe it in your soul, not just your mind.

When you feel that all your strength is gone, when you have prayed and cannot pray any longer, when discouragement and despair seem to overwhelm you, it does not matter how long it has been, our Creator can turn it around. 

When the world says, "Give up,"
Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."

life is music

Living is music
Your actions daily
compose the notes
Your actions daily
Write the lyrics
Of the song

In living,
Your life
Is part of the melody
For others to hear
And sing along

We each are one
Of the poets in life
We each always
Are part of the song

As common as water
From the front yard tap
As unique as each babes
First breath
Be noble
Your soul
Is made of stardust
Be humble
Your body
Is made of Earth
Be good, do good
Wonder
Be curious
Be inquisitive
Never, never judge

If you can’t yet
Write a few
Of the answers in life
Be the one
Who asks the questions

LEARNING

LEARNING


I want to talk about learning. But not the lifeless, sterile, futile, quickly forgotten stuff that is crammed in to the mind of the poor helpless individual tied into his seat by ironclad bonds  of conformity! I am talking about LEARNING - the insatiable curiosity that drives the adolescent boy to absorb everything he can see or hear or read about gasoline engines in order to improve the efficiency and speed of his 'cruiser'. I am talking about the student who says, "I am discovering, drawing in from the outside, and making that which is drawn in a real part of me." I am talking about any learning in which the experience of the learner progresses along this line: "No, no, that's not what I want"; "Wait! This is closer to what I am interested in, what I need"; "Ah, here it is! Now I'm grasping and comprehending what I need and what I want to know!"
Learning as a quantitative increase in knowledge. Learning is acquiring information .Learning as memorising. Learning is storing information that can be reproduced as acquiring facts, skills, and methods that can be retained and used as necessary.Learning as interpreting and understanding reality in a different way.A man knowing little or nothing of medical science could not be a good surgeon, but excellence at surgery is not the same thing as knowledge of medical science; not is it a simple product of it. The surgeon must indeed have learned from instruction, or by his own inductions and observations, a great number of truths; but he must also have learned by practice a great number of aptitudes.Learning how or improving an ability is not like learning that or acquiring information. Truths can be imparted, procedures can only be inculcated, and while inculcation is a gradual process, imparting is relatively sudden.

Strengths

                                Strengths

Each of us possess certain strengths and weaknesses and these often shape and may even dictate how we attack and approach life. And for many of us, knowing what we're best at and worst at doesn't necessarily come easily amid living up to what others expect of us in life, socially, professionally and peer-wise. In doing what others expect of us, we can sometimes overlook this important self-knowledge and not make the most of our talents. Job interviewers ask this question as a test of how well you will fit into their organization; you need to ask it of yourself to know how well you know yourself and whether you're living up to your full potential.Strengths are considered to be the talents, innate abilities and desires that "click" for you. In other words, these are the things that you'd be tempted to say "It wasn't effort, I've always had the ability to ...". Strengths should not be confused with skills, which can be learned or improved (for example, confidence and assertiveness are skills). Although self examination can lead you to a few answers, getting an outside opinion will help you either solidify your observations or can shatter a few illusions too.

Choose someone who will give you the truth and not sugarcoat or gloss over your weaknesses. If mom always tells you that you are the best in everything you do (when you know full well that you are not) kindly decline mom’s offer to be your feedback person. However, if your sister picks on everything you do, she’s not a good candidate either. Find an external, neutral person, preferably a peer or a mentor, to give you honest feedback.

Smile Is The Art Of Happiness

Mastering the 'Art of Happiness' is the key to living a beautiful and successful life. Yes not money, not power, but happiness. This is that elusive object which we are all running after, all yearning for. Happiness is very difficult to define and put into a few words, but it is essentially that state of mind where we are completely satisfied with us, and our lives, and we are at peace with ourselves.

As simple as this may sound, the art of happiness is the most difficult state to achieve. Sages and philosophers have been trying to find the perfect solution to achieve this art of happiness for millions of years. However the only way to master the art of happiness is to be happy with oneself. If I am happy with myself, my work, the people around me, then I am happy, and the simplest way to master this unique art of happiness is to 'smile'. Yes, smile! If you can smile through all the adversities and problems in your life, then you have perfected the art of happiness. This state can be achieved only when you have a positive attitude.

The art of happiness cannot be achieved if you are pessimistic, and have a negative attitude. It is only when you can smile even in the face of adversity or when the chips are down, even when things are not exactly going our way, that you can be happy. The most important lesson that has to be learnt from this is to have confidence in yourself, and give yourself respect.

The art of happiness is when you are satisfied with yourself, when you can smile even if you do not have a best of cars, flashy bungalows or more money than your neighbour. A crucial aspect of the art of happiness is also related to making people around you happy. Helping others, and making them happy with your deeds is perhaps the most fulfilling way to master the art of happiness. Even simple everyday things, like greeting people with a smile, helping elders, treating everyone equally creates a positive impact on people. The greatest joy you can have is to see the happiness on the face of others, especially your loved ones as a result of your actions. Then, you would have truly mastered the art of happiness. Therefore, always have a positive attitude, do not let greed and selfishness rule your heart, and you will then have perfected this mysterious art of happiness.

It is strange but very true. Studies have proved that just pretending to be cheerful, speaking in a happy tone, wearing a great smile and walking confidently can actually trigger joy.

This is the simplest way of proving that smile is the art of happiness.

beautiful message about our life.

A Short Inspirational Story with beautiful message about our life.........

A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.The father was kind of scared so he asked his little
daughter, " Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the
river. " The little girl said, " No,Dad. You hold my hand. " " What's the
difference? " Asked the puzzled father.


" there's a big
difference, " replied the little girl. " If I hold your hand and something
happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my
hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my
hand go. "


In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of
the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...
This message is too short.....but carries a lot of feelings.....its the best
Thing..........


Regards  say it only takes a minute to find a special person ... an hour to appreciate them ... a day to
love them ... but an entire lifetime to forget them.

Never take some one for granted, Hold every person Close to your Heart because you might wake up one day and realize.that you have lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones. "
Remember this always in life.

A SHORT MEANINGFUL STORY

A SHORT MEANINGFUL STORY

A contractor, who had made a fortune building homes, told his
supervisor of 35 years, " I'm going to build one last house and u will
build it for me coz I'll be gone for a year. Use the best material --
money is no consideration. Make it the greatest house we've ever
built " . Having given these instruction, the man left.

The supervisor thought that this was a great oppurtunity to make a
fortune. He used the cheapest material inside but made the house look
beautiful frm outside. After a year, the contractor returned, he
inspected the house and asked the supervisor what he thought of the
house.

The supervisor replied " it's the best house i've ever built " 

THE CONTRACTOR HANDED OVER THE DEED TO HIM AND SAID " THIS IS MY PARTING
GIFT TO U " 

MORAL --- we shud Develop a high standard of personal ethics ....and
always do the right things ,even if no one is watching us.

Change Your Perspective, Change Your LIFE

MAKE THE CONSCIOUS DECISION TO SHIFT YOUR BEHAVIOUR.  

I decided to no longer stand for my negative behavior, thoughts, and beliefs.

I truly believe we are solely responsible on how we act. We have a choice in how we use our energy. You can either let it suck you dry or allow it to feed you from head to toe. What will you choose?

SET YOUR INTENTION EACH MORNING. 

I start each day with intention.

Visualize how you will show up in the world. Picture your demeanor, your responses, and your energy. And then follow your intentions through. 

USE A TRIGGER TOOL. 

For me, this is my hairband. I always have a hairband on my wrist so it’s a no brainer. Whatever you use, you want it to remind you of your intention and bring you back to the present moment. When I find myself talking negatively, I snap my hairband on my wrist and it literally snaps me back to my intention. Yes, it stings a bit but it works for me.Find something that works for you.

ENLIST YOUR FRIENDS’ HELP.  

I reached out to friends.

Ask a few good friends to point it out to you when you are being overly negative. This is a great way to see how often you are acting like a brat. People always say awareness is key — and in this instance, I wholeheartedly agree!

IF ALL ELSE FAILS, SMILE, SAY NOTHING, AND MOVE ON.

You are going to have those days. Days where you think your life sucks. It’s inevitable. Sometimes all you can do is put your best foot forward, smile, shake it off and move on.

Motivational 

Motivational stories have the ability to lift us up, make us smile, encourage, motivate, and teach us valuable life lessons. Here are some motivating stories that will hopefully help you spark that motivational feeling. They give us an empowering sense of hope, that if ‘he/she’ can do it, so can I.

Throughout history, people have used inspirational stories to teach, encourage, and inspire in hopes that the listener will use it as a stepping stone and as an example to live a better life. Some will make you think, some will make you cry. Hopefully, some will give you that motivation to go for your dreams. The important thing to remember when reading these inspiring stories is that when you get that feeling of motivation, where you want to do something, do something. Nothing is more of a waste than to be inspired and motivated and not take any action. Your life will only change as a result of taking focused action. An inspirational story is nothing if it doesn’t cause you to do something or at least make you believe in yourself a bit more. Hopefully, these inspiring stories will change your life in some way.

The Story of the Butterfly  

A man found a cocoon of a butterfly.
One day a small opening appeared.
He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours
as it struggled to squeeze its body through the tiny hole.
Then it stopped, as if it couldn’t go further.

So the man decided to help the butterfly.
He took a pair of scissors and
snipped off the remaining bits of cocoon.
The butterfly emerged easily but
it had a swollen body and shriveled wings.

The man continued to watch it,
expecting that any minute the wings would enlarge
and expand enough to support the body,
Neither happened!
In fact the butterfly spent the rest of its life
crawling around.
It was never able to fly.

What the man in his kindness
and haste did not understand:
The restricting cocoon and the struggle
required by the butterfly to get through the opening
was a way of forcing the fluid from the body
into the wings so that it would be ready
for flight once that was achieved.

Sometimes struggles are exactly
what we need in our lives.
Going through life with no obstacles would cripple us.
We will not be as strong as we could have been
and we would never fly.

God’s greatest gift: Peace of Mind

God’s greatest gift: Peace of Mind

We are all daily seekers of inner peace, joy and happiness.    There are times when we do enjoy inner peace for days together, but it gets shattered again and again.    We tend to look for new solutions and the elite, the educated as well as common masses do pursue the most modern yet temporary methods available.    However, even then our prayers ask for peace of mind every morning and before retiring for the day.    Well, they say the voice of the people does reach God and He listens.  He responds and bestows answers to our honest prayers from the heart.   Over the centuries, we were told that ego, anger, greed, attachment etc   are the worst enemies of human beings, and need to be subdued and conquered completely to be able to enjoy peace of mind.    This simple fact has been accepted by the Founding Fathers of all religions and their respective followers.    However, we still find an ever-growing downfall of human values and morality.

                    The Importance Of Listening

In these modern times we as people are very busy. We have multiple distractions. Distractions such as cell phones, computers, Ipods and 24/7 television. We are constantly talking. Even when we are listening we are continually chattering in our brain. Formulating an answer, or reacting to what is being said. We all want to talk, but so few wish to listen. We hear what is being said but are we really listening? What is listening?

To go into this question we can begin with what it is not. Maybe from there we can discover its quality. Listening is not a reaction. Listening is not talking. Listening is not thinking. Listening is not what someone tells you it is. What I mean by that is. You and I could describe it, but that is not listening, that is merely its description. I could describe water to you, however the description of water will not quench your thirst.

When a person is listening there are no reactions. There is no thinking. There is no talking. Listening is not judging. Listening as I see it is a very humble quality. There is no me. There is no what I want to say. Listening is very revealing. Listening to your own thoughts or what others say can be very informative.

These days we lay so much emphasis on the intellect that we close our hearts and remove the beating moment to moment of life, because we are no longer listening. We have filled our lives with knowledge, beliefs, opinions, which lead to prejudgments.

The importance of listening is this. When you are not listening you are not learning. When you are not listening you are preventing opportunity. The fact that you do not listen reveals the reality that your mind is closed. When you are not listening you are preventing intelligence. When you are not listening there is nothing new, there are only your reactions. If you wish to live life to its fullest, then listening is vital.

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IMPORTANCE OF PARENTS

                                         IMPORTANCE OF PARENTS 

Parents serve as role models not only through direct interactions with their children, but through the examples they set with their attitude and behavior within the family and in the outside world. By addressing their concerns, sharing their lives, and maintaining a constructive perspective, parents can be sure they are excellent role models for their children.Role models can be subjects of admiration and emulation. Through their personal qualities and achievements, they can inspire others to strive and develop without direct instruction. Due to their regular presence and interaction with their children, parents can serve as consistent and evolving role models for their children.Communicating with children and stay active in their lives.

                                                 

Developing Patience

     As we human beings adjust to the ever-increasing speed of modern life, we often lose our patience, and in ways that would have been unimaginable even a few short decades ago. We sigh when forced to wait at ATMs, curse our computers for being so slow and honk our horns at slowpokes in traffic. Timeliness certainly has its rightful place in the scheme of things, but it's sheer folly to demand that everyone and everything around us move at the pace we dictate. Most of us could learn to be a little more patient.

      The good news is that patience is a mental skill, one that can be practiced and eventually mastered, even by the most impatient person.

      Usually we hear about exercising patience as it pertains to something else, like raising children or starting a business. The idea of cultivating patience for its own sake gets little attention, but there are some strong, compelling reasons for doing so. Impatience makes us lose our perspective, which hinders our power to create what we want and makes us vulnerable to attracting more of what we don't want. And losing patience constitutes a misuse of spiritual power.

      Think about it: most of us wouldn't even dream of handing over our innate power, for example, to think for ourselves to some religious authority or fascist dictator; yet daily we give away our power to remain calm and centered to things like long lines at the supermarket and inept sales transactions. 

      Impatience also takes it toll on our bodies, because it generates stress, which elevates blood pressure and wreaks havoc with the body's internal organs and immune system. Lack of patience harms the social side of life too: it strains relationships, causes discord in group situations and sets a bad example. And impatience often produces haste which, we are told, makes waste.

       Talk to yourself. Remind yourself how important tolerance and respect are.

Satisfaction

                                                          Satisfaction

There is no yardstick to measure satisfaction as it entirely depends upon the perspective of each person. What seems to be a full satisfaction for one person may be a meager for another. So, it all depends upon our mentality and approach. “Satisfaction lies in the effort, not in the attainment. Full effort is full victory’ said Indira Gandhi. It is hard to find a person who has attained full satisfaction in life because our wishes are endless. If we cultivate the habit of feeling satisfied with things that are within our reach, there will not be any disappointments. “Learn to be satisfied. It is just as easy as being dissatisfied and much more pleasant “are the words said B Jacon de Jager. Nature has given us so much to satisfy every man’s need and not every man’s greed. So, be satisfied with what you have and lead a contended life.

My Mother

                                                                                   My Mother

When you knew how to speak, what was your first word ? It is Mom. We have grown up in the arms of our mothers. We have grown up in the great love of our mothers. No one loves us like our mothers, no one is willing to sacrifice everything for us like our mothers. If someone asks you “Who is the best woman in your life ?”, I bet you will say it is your mother. And if someone asks me like that, my answer also is my mother.

With me, my mother is the best woman in the world. No one can replace her in my heart.  I admire my mother, I don't know why she is always busy with daily chores, taking care of my family but she never say she is tired.

Every day, she is the first person in my family, who wakes up very early. Then, she makes breakfast for my family. When my father goes to work, I go to school, my mother stays home and does all the daily chores. When my father and I come home, there is always a delicious dinner, which is waiting for us. After the dinner, my mom washes the dishes. Sometimes, I ask her to help, but she says: “It is fine, you should go upstairs and do your homework”. Mom always wake up very early, and Mom is the last person can take a break after a busy day. I realize that without my Mom, my father and I cannot have the clean house, the delicious meal and the clothes which always iron straight. Mom gives me and my father all her love.

She loves us more than herself. Her love for us is great like the ocean, the universe and nothing can replace it. She is not only my mom, she is also my friends, my big sister, who I can share all my problems and stories in life with. When I am sad, happy or stressful, Mom is always by my side and comfort me. Sometimes, I get angry with my mom because she remind me too much things, especially they are all things I know. Then, I realize that she just wants me- her child to be good.

 When she cried, I felt so sorry and guilty. I wasn't brave enough to looked at her. Then I came to her slowly, hugged her and said: “I was sorry, mom. I knew that I had made a big mistake. I felt so sorry. Mom, please forgive me. I promised that I wouldn't do this again. I was so sorry. I made you cry.” And she hugged me tight, she whispered: “How couldn't I forgive you ? I was just a little disappointed, but I knew, you would know how to fix your mistake, I love you.” I cried after she said that, just a bit, but I did cry.

Mom, you gave me everything but you never ask me to pay back. You are the best, the greatest woman in this world and in my heart. I love you forever. 

‎"Don't move the way fear makes you move. Move the way love makes you move. Move the way joy makes you move."

THE PROBLEM

                                                        THE PROBLEM

       People today these days don't think what other's feel they think for there own self , there own feelings, I is Important like there own Ipod, Ipad, Iphone in all these I  is Important when I comes in life then comes no togetherness felling comes only loneliness comes in life so the problem is this that people are being alone and suffering with there own problems no one is there to  share with or help them in there problems and difficult,harsh situations in life.

Creative Creature...: Distance: The biggest challenge

Distance: The biggest challenge

When you were here,

There was nothing to fear.

I could hold you so near,

There was no pain, no tear.

When we had a fight,

I could hold you so tight.

When nothing went right,

In darkness, you were the light.

The distance has played its role,

Each happiness has to pay its toll,

Everyone around is passing by scroll,

The road is smooth, but filled with coal.

There are many things to share,

But the talk starts with a flare.

The Inner soul happiness is very rare,

Because I still miss your love, your care.

I am frustrated like hell,

I have no one to tell.

Trying to rise out of the well,

So it’s you on whom I always yell.

God is juggling our life,

We are struggling in life.

Against the rules of this life,

I promise I will make you my wife; I will make you my wife.

I request you to share your feedback here. 

Your Support is my Success. 

 "The definition of SUCCESS”

To laugh often; to win respect of intelligent persons and the affections of children; to earn the approbation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to give one's self; to leave the world a little better, whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition.; to have played and laughed with enthusiasm, and sung with exultation; to know even one life has breathed easier because you have lived--this is to have succeeded."

“Try honestly to make the other person feel important, and do it sincerely.”

  All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest - never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equal partnership.

                           A NEW DAY*

This is the beginning of a new day.

I have been given this day to use as I will.

I can waste it or use it for good.

What I do Today is important because

I'm exchanging a day of my life for it.

When tommorrow comes, this day will be

gone forever, leaving in its place

whatever I have traded for it.

I pledge to myself that it shall be:

        gain, not loss;

        good, not evil;

        success, not failure,

       in order that I shall not regret the

price I paid for this day.

Veg Rawa Uttapam

RAVA UTTAPAM

SERVINGS : 2 people

INGREDIENTS :

1. Suji (Semolina) – 1 cup.

2. Curd (Yogurt) – 1 cup (the more sour the curd is, the better it tastes).

3. Tomato – 2 , medium size, finely chopped.

4. Onion – 1 finely chopped.

5. 1/2 inch thumb of Ginger.

6. 10-15 Coriander leaves (dhaniya).

7. Green chili, according to taste.

8. Red chili powder, according to taste.

9. Salt, according to taste.

10. Oil.

11. Water



TOTAL TIME : 30 minutes.

How to make Rava Uttpam :

1. Mix semolina, half of the curd (1/2 cup) and salt and add 3/4 cup water to form barter (lapsi).

2. Leave the barter for 20 minutes so that it may become thick and in the meantime chop vegetables, finely.

3. Add the remaining curd, vegetables, chili powder and salt and mix well.

4. Heat a non stick pan and add a few drops of oil.

5. Spread a ladle (kalchul) of barter on the pan, add few drops of oil over it cook at low flame.

6. After 2-3 minutes, flip over to the other side and cook similarly.

Serve it hot with coconut chutney or tomato sauce.

                       MY WISHES FOR YOU

                Comfort on difficult days

                Smiles when sadness intrudes

                Rainbow to follow clouds

                Laughter to feed your lips

                Sunset to warm your heart

                Friendship to brighten your day

                Beauty for your eyes to see

                Confidence when you doubt

                faith so that you can believe

                courage to know yourself

                 Patience to accept the truth

                And love to complete your life.