Relationship Really Means

Relationship 

 Being in a relationship means being happy together, celebrating the differences and enjoying the team work. If humans would have the inherent characteristic to be alone and happy, perhaps the population would be a lot less and each one us would be occupying our own personal island. However, fortunately and unfortunately, we are highly evolved individuals, for whom to love and to be loved is a very basic necessity. Hence being in a relationship is an option which we do choose, to ensure our “Happily ever after life.”But, with time only the relationship is left behind, with little or no happiness. This happens because we tend to forget what a relationship really means.

This is What Being In A Relationship Really Means :

1. Having faith, freedom and friendship

You need to have faith. You need to have the freedom to speak for yourself, freedom to follow your heart and the freedom to make your own choices, while you are enjoying the relation with a bondage of friendship. Being in a relation means a balance between the freedom and bondage.

2. Giving and getting the time

Women want someone to understand them whereas men often want someone to connect to them through watching a football match or playing video games with them. Hence giving and getting time, is one important aspect of being in a relationship.

3. Being Patience

It takes time to give and get time, so be patient. Accepting your partner with his/her imperfections, needs patience. Things will be perfect, with a little patience. There is no point in having daily fights over routine habits of your partner. He/she needs time to change himself/herself.

4. Being Able to Share

Sharing feelings, emotions,  thoughts, words and actions enables you to spend some quality time with your partner. This makes you feel complete in your own world of two people. When you share, you connect. When you connect, then the relationship begins.

5. Being the Strength

Everyone has a time in life when they feel low. This is when being with your partner makes you stronger. When someone believes in you, when someone motivates you, inspires you, strengthens you, then you realize what being in a relationship really means. It means being strong together, living as a team.

6. Love

Being in relationship means being in love. Love means acceptance : Praise the good, accept the flaws and provide the inspiration to change. Love is neither a moment nor a feeling, it is the existence of togetherness.

7. Being yourself

You don’t need to act or be someone else just to impress your partner. Being in a relationship means being yourself. Everyone is different and being in a relation allows you to celebrate the mutual difference!

8. Allowing yourselves to miss each other

Go for a vacation with your friends, Find time for your own passions. Being together 24/7 doesn’t help much because it is important that you allow yourself to miss your partner.

Hence being in a relationship means to live, to love, to smile, to exist with joy!!

There is certainly a way to sort out every difference, you just need the will and the faith strong enough, to make the relationship fruitful. You need to remember, that you enter into a relationship to be happy , and you must be!!

The Sweet love poem

The sweet love poem is the one 
that gives you a good feeling
 when you read it.
 You almost smack your lips
 because it tastes so good in your mouth.
 Love is such a powerful emotion
 that a good love poem
 can taste delicious in your mouth.
 When you are one with your lover it is a very sweet feeling. 
There may be chaos in all areas of your life
 but when you come home to the person
 that you love the most in the world, 
nothing else matter

We know Like Forever

When I first met you 
I felt like I had known you forever, 
telling you about myself 
and what I didn't want ever. 
you listened to me 
I bet you thought I'd never end, 
who would have thought 
we would become more than just friends. 
Over a period of time, 
I got to know the real you. 
A boy so caring and gentle, 
with a heart so true. 
You've survived your life 
with hurt and loneliness by your side. 
I told you I'd never leave 
because of the feelings I have inside. 
I know you 
like no one I have ever known, 
and sometimes I wonder 
what I'd do if you were gone? 
So I have decided 
time answers all. 
If it is meant to be 
time will remove the wall. 
I love the way we are together, 
you can always make me smile. 
Will it ever really be forever? 
I guess I will have to wait awhile. 
Time will reveal what lies ahead 
but always remember 
what I have said. 
Meeting you has changed my life 
and  the feelings I feel for you 
I am never letting go. 
Remember me always 
and I will too. 
I always think of 
me and you.

Happy Soul Speaking

    Happy Soul Speaking :

 This story is about a person working with a freezer plant.
It was almost the day end. Everyone had packed up to check out.

A technical snag developed the plant and he went to check.

By the time he finished it was late. The doors were sealed and the lights were off.

Trapped inside the ice plant whole night without air and light, an icy grave was almost sure for him.

Hours passed thus. Suddenly he found someone opening the door.

Was it a miracle?

The security guard entered there with a torch light and helped him to come out.

On the way back the person asked the security guard, “How did you know that I am inside?” “Who informed you?” the guard said, “None sir; this unit has about 50 people. But you are the only one who says Hello to me in the morning and bye in the evening.

You had reported in morning. But did not go out. That made me suspicious.”

Never did the person know that a small gesture of greeting someone would prove to be a lifesaver for him.
So do us.
Remember to greet when you meet someone, of course with a warm smile.
We don’t know; that may work a miracle in your life too.🎊