Tuesday, 18 December 2012

dreams

                                                                   DREAMS


Dreams are just thoughts you had during the day.. That would explain why I dream about you so much. Reality and dreams have two different meaning of life; Reality shows the facts about life, and your dreams are just an imagination moment.If there is something in this world that has no limits, imagination tops the list. But the irony is that man has the power to turn his imagination into reality only if he believes that he can do it. Imagination coupled with effort and hard work can bring in wonders. The dreams of great people have come true through their unstinted hard work. 
Necessity is the mother of invention they say but any invention comes into shape only after the imagination is given due recognition. If knowledge is essential for an end product, imagination forms the fuel. You can never fly without imagination and therefore, dont cut its wings. 

Wednesday, 24 October 2012

Morality

 Morality

The greatest gift of human rationality is morality. The establishment of “morality” is based on the recognition that every human has a general set of basic needs to lead a life free of physical and psychological suffering.Before I take any position on the issues raised by the differences between these various approaches, I need to offer a definition of morality. Morality, in the context of these different kinds of theories, can be defined only descriptively in relation to its purpose and to its function.People can only try to provide different answers based on their own assumptions, faiths, experiences and intuitions. Thus, morality, in the most practical sense, is a tool or way of life used to promote the common good of human beings and eliminate harmful actions that bring negative consequences in life, goals based on the principle of reciprocity and empathy, and a set of universally recognized human needs and capabilities.

Monday, 15 October 2012

Friendship


Friendship is a feeling of love and affection of one person for another. This feeling of love must be reciprocated. Otherwise friendship cannot be possible. Friendship does not exist where tastes, feelings and sentiments are not similar.
The famous essayist Bacon has warned against the friendship between a very rich person and a very poor person. Economic disparity damages friendship. Thus friendship is a feeling of affection between two like minded persons of uniform status.
It is said that a friend in need is a friend in deed. There may be many friends at the time of prosperity. But most of them desert at the time of adversity. We can examine the sincerity of a friend during our time of hardship and trouble. Only a sincere and faithful friend remains with us at the time of our trouble. All others leave us. It is very painful when our friends turn traitors.
Money is an enemy of friendship. Everybody has an attraction for money. When lending or borrowing of money is done between two friends, there is great risk. Friendship may be affected. So it is wise for true friends to avoid monetary transaction. Vanity is another element which breaks friendship. Everybody has self-respect. When a person tries to criticise his friend, their friendship is affected. So friendship must be treated very delicately.
Very often some hypocrites pretend to be friends. They are more dangerous than avowed enemies. By telling soft words they bring enormous ruin to us. A true friend never exploits. He rather surrenders. But at present, the meaning of friendship has changed.
Good friends exercise good influence. They always help their friends, in distress and inspire them to walk on the right path. But evil friends ruin us completely.

Monday, 24 September 2012

Gift of Love



The beauty within your soul glow colors of a rainbow, the truth of your heart is your precious gift of love.   You have many gifts that are embedded deep within you; see the beauty of life with your heart and you will find your gifts.  the true gift is beauty of love that we can give to each other.Give your gifts to life and live by the truth of your heart.   Do not ever give up on finding true love, do not ever give in to a fake heart and settle for less than your own self love.    Open up your heart and feel the beauty of true love, you have nothing to lose because you own your heart.    Give your heart to life and love will gift  you .

Wednesday, 19 September 2012

Family




When we Close our eyes and picture Family comes, Family's love is life's greatest blessing.

You know the old saying, "you can't choose your family".   Even when we migrate from one place to another, we carry our family values with us.   In fact, our family is responsible for our identity. Remember, the world knows you by your actions and not by your intentions.   Whatever   we  have  learned  from our family  over the years  serves as a   basic premise for our actions in life. As such, individuals with extended family enjoy more benefits over a person who decides to lead a solo life.   A person  with a  family receives an  emotional edge, which often results into his success in life.I have really captured the many hues of life .


The family unit is an important part of our growth and development. Sometimes the definition of family is not always cut and dry. For many of us, our friends serve as our closet relations, becoming every bit as important to us as any bond formed by blood ties.

Whether you're estranged from your loved ones, or you just can't get enough of them, here you will find an assemblage of thoughts that will really hit home.

They may be exasperating at times, but you are lucky to have them. Let them know just how you feel with these poignant words of love. During hard times, everyone in the family including you benefit due to the extended relationship, especially during events such as death, accident and so on. Also, the joy associated with success or any other happy moment magnifies when our family is around. Everyone out there is able to reap the benefits of one person’s success, whether it’s your birthday, a new business venture or any other milestone in life.

While technology has certainly helped families stay in close contact with each other, can it replace the feeling that one receives after hugging his/her child or can it serve as an ideal  Whatever the case may be, the significance of family is incalculable!

Thursday, 13 September 2012

Thank you and Sorry


hey all I feel Thank you and Sorry can make a relationship bond stronger and Its a sign of kindness and mannerism. do u all agree?????

Thanks means Appreciating somebody work or someone. then true smile comes on the faces its like hundred million smile.   Sorry is like forgiving some one Forgiveness is to release from hard feelings, yes, but it is also to release from revenge and to help them overcome their sins! 

The weak can never forgive.   Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong  .Apologizing does not always mean that you are wrong and the other person is right.   It just means that you value your relationship more than your ego.   Thanking Someone is a gesture of gratitude, With a simple hand gesture in sign language, you can easily convey your "thanks" to those who are serving without stumbling around for words, feeling awkward or getting tearful.  Gratitude is when memory is stored in the heart and not in the mind.

Tuesday, 11 September 2012

kindness


kindness is the act or the state of being kind, being marked by good and charitable behavior, pleasant disposition, and concern for others. It is known as a virtue, and recognized as a value in many cultures and religions . Knowing the meaning of kindness is good. Better still is experiencing how to be happy by sowing seeds of kindness through doing small acts of kindness daily. Kindness then soon blossoms into love.


  • Look your partner in the eye and smile at him or her in a kindly way.


  • At a checkout till smile at the cashier, and thank them for the job they're doing.


  • In a public washroom, smile at the cleaner and thank him or her for keeping the place so clean and fresh for everyone. Perhaps even give a tip if that would be appropriate in your society.


  • Offer to help a family member carry their shopping bags into the house.


  • In the home, offer to do something that another member of the family usually does - just to give them a break from it. It could be washing the dishes, taking out the refuse, making the bed, locking the garage door or any of the typical household activities that are part of life.


  • When you next make a phonecall to a stranger, deliberately and consciously be friendly to the person at the other end, without being gushy or syrupy. Just be nice, recognising them as another human being who also wants to be happy.


  • Extend the practice beyond human beings too: to pets and plants. See if you feel good inside.