Old Age home

Old age home may be defined as “A retirement home is a multi-residence housing facility intended for senior citizens”. It is sometimes called an old men’s home or Retirement home. Old age home is the aged men’s unfortunate and unexpected destination despite delivering all fortunes and expectation of their beloved son or daughter. Old age Home is the very good success formula of today’s nuclear family believer and killer results of old aged sentiments. The young generation frankly decides for exclusion of old aged methodology of joint family and advocates of old age home. Young generation feels old age people a burden. It is because the traditional values and sociability have been changed drastically in today’s time. The old age group is now feeling this embarrassing blow. The aged people are spending their twilight years in isolation , pain and misery. All these collectively are responsible for old age home concept.

If it is discussed then many will raise hand in favour of this system. It is because the old age homes are increasing whole around the world. That means more and more people are getting detached from their parents. The trends are shifting from joint family to nuclear family concept at larger scale. The new generation assimilating their parents as a barrier in this competitive world. The today’s system are arguing that the two age bands can not grow together. But still many people are attached to the old values and sociability and are also against the old age home and disqualifying the separation from their parents.

I conclude that the becoming older and existence of younger one is cyclic biological process. No one can get rid of these two state of life. Old age people needs care, love and healthy emotional family sharing for satisfaction. New one needs growth and success in today’s competitive world. These two objectives are to be strategically balanced. The parents is to be given high priority over everything. They should be included in the family running process so that they could feel themselves not ignored.

Open The Door

Open the door
the door of thy wisdom
open all windows
of thy heart and mind
the first ray of sun
carries full bag of intellects
Thus, you keep your room
all way ventilate
Be not afraid
of being stolen your goods
that are kept in the hidden lock
as those are not yours
that goods which you think
precious
may be effluvium n stinking the
room
so, let them pass away and the ray
full of intellect may in.
Keep all the doors of your heart
and
mind opened.

Special Love Poem

I want to say so much

But words cannot express
The deep passionate love I have for you 
Your love outweighs my stress.

The many nights I dreamnt about you
The many days I wonder
The many hours I prayed to God
That our love will never wander.

The precious days we spend together
The love we have is real
I don't want to be with anyone else
This is how I truly feel.

Baby you make me very happy
Being with you are the happiest days of my life
But the happiest day of all
Is when you make me your sweet wife.

So be my life, be my soul
Be my heart with extra beats
Thank you for being my special love
I finally feel complete.

Love

• Love is the strongest emotion and the need, longing for love is unquenchable. 
• Love stories show us how individual people experience their love. It is beautiful and special to have these experiences. 
• Love is priceless, without love we are not human. 

• Love is not about what happens in life. Love is about what happens in your heart. 
• Love is the best medicine, and there is more than enough to go around once you open your heart  
• Love is to think about someone else more times in a day than you think about yourself. 
• Love is a symbol of eternity. It wipes out all sense of time, destroying all memory of a beginning and all fear of an end.
• Love is like lightning. When it hits you, you feel it throughout your entire body. When it leaves you, you're never the same again. 
• Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 
• Love is not what the mind thinks, but what the heart feels.

Two Minds

Two Minds

Every person you ever meet
has two minds
it's true as a summer day is long.
First is the mind,
conscious and unconscious,
we use every day
in our trials and striving
with money, doughnuts,
fears, gripes, hopes
and day-to-day struggles.

Then, deep inside each of us
living in our souls,
reaching out from our hearts,
is who we really are---
A mind as understanding, compassionate,
brilliant, wise, fearless and kind
as anyone who has ever lived.
It whispers often to your intuition
and is capable of such great presence
it can cause miracles
great and small to happen.

Sometimes,
when you are all alone
with someone talking
and your hearts touch
or when the stakes you face
are so ultimately dire
they reach clear through your entire being,
your everyday mind steps aside
and for awhile, your second mind awakes
to shine more brightly
than a June sky sun.

“ Tips for How to be Happy "

I always wonder why most of us keep on tormenting ourselves without any proper reason. Each one among us has some problems in his/her life and at the same time has lots of smile drawing moments also. But instead of confronting the situation smilingly we all tend to curse society, family, God and sometimes even our own destiny. We become so accustomed to the negative surrounding around us that we begin to feel everything wrong and unfavourable for ourselves. Well… here I am going to share some “How to be happy Tips” with all of you. These points or tips are derived from my personal experiences. Even I used to be very negative at a certain point in my life but that dark phase made me more strong, positive and more resolute for my actions.

1. Pay your hearty regards to the great Almighty when you wake up in the morning. Thank him for everything you posses, for giving you the body, family, profession, love and for everything you are happy about. When we can curse him for all of our failures then we should also thank him for all the opportunities he bestows on us. Try to feel his existence within yourself.

2. Always start your day with a smile on your face. This is the most important step as this will decide your mood for the entire day. There could be lots of problems in your mind regarding relationships, family, career or money but nothing is bigger than your patience and courage.  Try to recall some beautiful moments of your life rather than your borrowings, a scold from your boss or any fight with a loved one.

3. Say at least 10 times in a day that you are happy… not only say try to feel it. It will help you to feel good about your life and building a positive attitude.

4. Pamper yourself. If you don’t care for yourself, how can you expect others to care for you. Feel important , whom God has sent  for a special purpose.  But at the same time it is also important to avoid self-obsession.

5. Never ever say that you are unlucky as it could be very dangerous.  Suppose you are putting your best at office but your boss still call you a doddle and he continues to do so. Probably one day will come when you will force to think that despite of your hard-work and dedication if you are being considered as a doddle only, it’s better to become a doddle then. Same is with your luck. If you held it responsible for your failures, in return it will too turn into a bad luck only.

6. Spare some time for social service. Usually people think that social service means to donate money to trusts and organisations indulged in religious activities or work for some N.G.O. ,  contribute one’s time or money to orphanages, old-age homes ,  slum children etc.. But according to me it means to help someone without expecting anything in return, help them to come out from any unfavourable situation, to make them smile. So simple is that.   

                                              Suppose you are going to your office, you are already late, scared that your boss going to ruin you when you reach office. Suddenly you see a person, very tired, almost bathing in sweat, dragging his bike with great efforts as he has run out of fuel. What would you do?? In most of the cases we will ignore him with a thought that someone else will definitely help him but think what will happen when everyone will think like that?.In reality we have lost a chance to make ourselves happy. I will suggest you to help him not for him but for your own self. You might get late but those 5-10 minutes of your help and a “thank you” from that person will give you the happiness to endure your boss’s scold. If you see a child hungry, offer him your lunch box. It will give you more satisfaction than consuming it yourself.

7. Try to make everyone happy around you. In your office go and wish your colleagues good-morning without expecting them to come to you and wish the same.  While riding on the rickshaw/Auto/Taxi ask the driver about his name and native place. He will get connected and concerned about you and guide you the best in the possible way.

                                   I want to share an incident with you. once  I was sitting in a restaurant with some friends, my order got delayed by few minutes,  but instead of getting annoyed on the waiter I passed  him a smile and said “Kyon meri shakal pasand nhi aai kya”. He smiled back and said “there is nothing like that mam”. And believe me after that he gave us his best service. A smile is that curve which straightens everything. Well said. Isn’t it?

8. Never bother about what people will say. “Duniya ka Sabse Bada Rog, ke Kya Kahenge Log”. Do whatever your heart says, whatever you love and wish to do.

9. Spare sometime for yourself. In this humdrum of life we give time to everything which is necessary for us except our-self. How funny is it!! You love to play badminton or love to read or write... always give sometime to your hobby. This will always make you feel alive.

10. Last and the most important: smile, smile and more smile all the time........ 

Stay Blessed and stay happy!!!

Falling in love is a nice feeling

Falling in love is a nice feeling.

Falling in love is a nice feeling. It is entirely an emotional matter and a majority of the love arises almost spontaneously. “Meeting you was fate becoming your friend was a choice but falling in love with I had no control over” says a quote. Falling in love can occur at any time, in any place, under any circumstances. Albert Einstein humorously says, “Gravitation cannot be responsible for falling in love “. But the most important part is you have to fall in love with the same person again and again. This is the secret of marriage. Falling in love is like falling in water. We can fall in it. We can drown in it but we can’t live without it. Falling in love is the necessity that can never be avoided and it is not necessary to avoid it. But instead of falling in love with more than one person many times, fall in love with the same person many times.